[OWLS Blog Tour] Our Imperfections Make Us Stronger- Learning to Accept Your True Colors

Hey hey all you Heroes and Travelers out there today I’m bringing you all another super special awesome OWLS post!! If this is your first time here on Nice Job Breaking It Hero, you were probably linked here by my blogging buddy and the anime host with the most, Takuto… and I welcome you with open arms!!

Back in December I mentioned that I’d joined OWLS: Otaku Warriors of Liberty and Self-Respect, a group of bloggers and vloggers that hope to spread a message of acceptance and understanding through thoughtful community activism!

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So, in order to spread our message of self acceptance and tolerance, we’ve decided to hold Monthly Blog Tours! During Blog Tours, we each write individual theme posts on our blogs that promote our group’s values, with a bit of an otaku twist. May’s Blog Tour topic is Strength!

*Disclaimer: This post and the film, Colorful deal with some heavy themes that some people may be uncomfortable with, namely suicide and death. While I understand that different cultures and people deal with mental health in different ways, it’s important to know that this is an important topic and I have done my best to handle it with the utmost care. Remember that if you or anyone you know is experiencing feelings of loneliness, saddness, hopelessness or considering suicide, you are not alone!

The True Measure of Strength

Coming up with a topic for this month’s tour gave me a bit of trouble in the beginning. When I think of strength, I tend to think of strength in the physical sense, superficial, I know, but it’s not an uncommon outlook. We value physical over abstract, it’s just human nature, but often times the true measure of one’s strength isn’t the number of fights they’ve won or the how many pounds they can bench press, it’s something much more indistinct…

“Your greatest weakness can become your greatest strength.”

In anime, characters struggle with inner demons or physical weaknesses that make them feel insecure and prevent them from achieving goals. Yet when these characters overcome their adversity, they can finally be able to express who they are or in other words, “Free to be Me.”

For this tour, we will be exploring anime characters that have overcome adversity due to a personal insecurity or physical weakness. It is these type of characters that many anime fans may identify as role models because fans are able to feel empathetic towards these characters’ struggles and insecurities.

OWLS May Blog Tour Prompt

I bet most of you guys expected me to write about Haikyuu again for this month’s tour, and I seriously thought about it, but ultimately I decided to take my post in a different direction. Instead of taking my usual literal approach, I decided to look at the various manifestations of strength in the animated film, Colorful.


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Colorful is a 2010 animated film based on the novel of the same name by Eto Mori. The film follows an unnamed soul that committed a serious mistake in their past life and is given a second chance at life. Reluctantly the soul is placed within the body of a junior high student that recently committed suicide. Now, Makoto Kobayashi, the soul has six months to discover what their mistake was and why Makoto chose to take his own life. Throughout the film we explore the events that lead up to Makoto’s suicide and the role his relationships with the family had on his decision to end his life.

Typically when an anime or a film attempts to tackle a sensitive subject like suicide they run the risk of either A) watering down the topic so that it is acceptable for general audiences; or B) trying too hard to convey a message and winding up sounding overly preachy. Thankfully, Colorful doesn’t do any of that, rather than labeling the characters and their actions as either good or bad, the film leaves the decision wholly up to the viewer. Driving home the idea that people are multifaceted beings that don’t conform to a single interpretation.

“People aren’t monochromatic; they have many colors.”

-Makoto Kobayashi (Colorful, 2010)

So, the message of the film, contrary to what you might be thinking isn’t “life is worth living” and if that is what you were expecting from Colorful, this might not be the movie for you. The underlying message of the film is that every person, regardless of who they are or where they’re from has problems. No one is perfect, everyone has something that they are struggling with and while these obstacles may seem insurmountable at times, they don’t dictate the quality of one’s life.

Ultimately change isn’t the key to happiness, understanding and acceptance is, throughout the film “Makoto” struggles with accepting people and things around him when they fail to meet a certain standard. When he first returns from the hospital, he is confused about why someone like “Makoto” would attempt to end his life, since he seems to have a loving and attentive family. But as the film progresses and each of his family members’s transgressions come to light, he becomes disillusioned with them, condemning them. This is a constant with Makoto throughout the film, whenever something is revealed to be flawed, he distances himself from it, because he sees their shortcomings as a reflection of his own. Which is most prominent with his treatment of his mother, who up until his suicide attempt was having an affair with her dance instructor, disgusted with her actions he shuts her out completely to the point that the poor woman breaks down.

At first it’s easy to condemn Makoto for his action, the way he so easily judges everyone around him, but then you come to realize that despite how cruel he may seem, his actions and feelings are completely and utterly normal. I know some of you are saying to yourselves, “I could never be so cruel to anyone!”, but think about it, have you never had a bad thought about anyone? Never snubbed someone you didn’t like? Secretly wished someone harm? Been jealous of a friend? If you said no, you are either lying to yourself or a saint, but the fact remains that people aren’t just made up of bright colors, we have our fair share of blacks and grays, too. We all have our dark moments, it’s only after we accept those darker bits that we can truly grow and empathize with others, seeing their flaws as an extension of our own and vice versa.

It’s this underlying strength that permeates the narrative, and it is only after Makoto accepts his flaws that he is truly able to move on, becoming a better person in the process. Now, let’s be clear, Makoto never fully gets rid of his darker shades, he’s still just as flawed as he was at the beginning, but that’s okay, so long as he doesn’t let those feelings and thoughts dictate how he lives his life.


Hidden in Plain Sight: The Curious Case of Mental Health

Okay, before I close this post out, I wanted to address suicide a bit, since it is an integral part of the plot of Colorful. The various characters (those that know about Makoto’s suicide attempt) deal with his “incident” in different ways. His family attempts to make things as comfortable as possible for him, giving him his space, but also by taking the time let him know that they love him and care for him. At times it may seem like their words aren’t getting through to him, but the fact they are open about their feelings makes all the difference in the world!

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Support doesn’t always mean that you have to do anything, just being there for someone is enough.

When you accidentally cut your finger, you’re given a band-aid, when you have a headache, you take an aspirin, when you break a bone you wear a cast for a few weeks and then it’s business as usual. The injury is forgotten and life goes on, but what happens when the injury isn’t physical? What do you do when the pain isn’t physical? What do you do when the problem is a feeling you can’t seem to shake? Sadness? Hopelessness? Loneliness? A lack of motivation? What do you do when you feel just can’t seem to do anything right?

Millions around the world find themselves asking these questions and more, but unlike a cut or a broken bone, there isn’t an easy “fix”. When it comes to mental health, more times than not cries for help are written off as a passing phase, a momentary weakness, a character flaw… something that should be handled behind closed doors, which can lead to individuals taking matters into their own hands. For many suicide is an enticing solution for putting an end to the pain, a final solution for what appears to be a hopeless situation.

There were several cues throughout the film that hinted that Makoto might have been trying to reach out to others before his suicide attempt. He may not have confided in anyone about his feelings, but his paintings and drawings definitely paint a very telling picture of his emotional state. When flipping through his sketch book towards the end of the film, his drawings start out bright and colorful transitioning into uncolored pieces, and the final image depicts a person slowly swirling  down a dark spiral. When compared with his other pieces shown throughout the film, the final drawing is a drastic shift in styles, it’s grim, but very telling.

Of course the most prominent painting is the one Makoto has been working on in Art Club, unlike the above image, it’s fully colored and while it depicts a horse at the bottom of the ocean, there’s a hopeful feeling to it, implying that Makoto wanted a way out of his situation…

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A cry for help isn’t always a shout, sometimes it’s a whisper, a small change, something easily overlooked or dismissed. We get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of our own lives that we fail to see the scars that lie hidden in plain sight. The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention outlines a few common warning signs that someone might be contemplating ending their own life, however, it is important to note that there is no one reason for a person choosing to commit suicide. Signs and symptoms only serve as a guideline, the only way to truly know how someone is feeling is to communicate, so if you suspect something reach out!


Finding Strength in Our Flaws

True strength is not overcoming the parts of ourselves that we hate, its accepting who we are, the good with the bad, the light with the dark. Far too often we believe that anything that doesn’t conform with what the rest of the world deems normal is wrong, but those are the parts of ourselves that make us uniquely human and rather than stifling those differences we should celebrate them. Once we are able to accept ourselves we are better able to accept others into our hearts and that is what Colorful is all about; acceptance and empathy. When we lack those, people become isolated and while not everyone will turn to suicide to end their suffering, many will and it is important that we reach out to one another, even if it’s to say hello. I kind of feel like this got kind of preachy, so I’m just going to put a pin in this post now…

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There is still one more blog tour stop left in the May Tour, next up is  LynLyn from Just Something About LynLyn so definitely be on the look out for that posts on the 31st!! Also if you haven’t already, please subscribe to the Official OWLS Twitter account @OWLSbloggers and the Official OWLS Blog, to stay up to date on all OWLS news and announcements!

If you are interested in becoming a member of the OWLS team, please feel free to fill out the contact form, HERE! So don’t be afraid to reach out to any of us on our blogs, on twitter, or at the contact page to learn more about us!! You just need an open mind and a willingness to have fun!

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18 thoughts on “[OWLS Blog Tour] Our Imperfections Make Us Stronger- Learning to Accept Your True Colors

  1. This post was amazing. Great writing for the topic. I feel like suicide is a really tough situation to be in especially if you know someone who wants to escape life. True strength is when you live and survive life without killing yourself.

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  2. First off I want to really hand out a big compliment here: this was a truly amazing post. I loved reading it, it was very well written and considering the heavy subject it was dealt with in a very respectful way.
    I saw this movie a few years ago and it completely blew me away. You are so right: this movie could have ended up being overly dramatic, or very sappy, but it ended up dealing with the subject matter in a very touching manner. Needless to say, I loved this movie, and reading through this post ot makes me want to see the movie again.
    In closing, I think to give support to people is one of the things that is so very easy to do, and does not cost you a single thing. A simple hello, or listening to someone’s story might make all the difference in someone’s life 😊 Keep up the great work !

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    1. Thank you so much, that really means a lot to me! I was worried about the topic a bit, but I’m glad that I was able to do the topic justice.

      Colorful is such a fantastic movie, it’s a shame that not many people have seen it! Definitely leaves a lasting impression, plus there are so many things you miss on the first viewing.

      Yes, exactly! People always think that you have to do something drastic to make a difference in someone else’s life, but really all you have to do is say Hey!! Thank you for leaving such a thoughtful comment!!

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  3. Oh, this was great Naja! I’ve always been curious about this film and am definitely will be watching this soon. Well-written post that’s truly respectful of the subject as Michel above said. Thank you for sharing and writing about this!

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    1. Yeah, it’s definitely worth watching if you have the chance! I watch it every so often and every time i manages to leave a strong impression on me! Gosh, I’m glad, MH is an important topic for me and I really wish it got more attention, so if this post helps then it did it’s job!

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  4. Oh Naja ❤ This was so well done! I didn't think it was preachy at all I thought it was really insightful. I like how you brought about the fact that sometimes calls for help aren't shouted and I like how it seems that this movie illustrated that fact as well. I feel like a lot of times in media this idea is a bit misrepresented. There is so much shame in the idea of suicide that I feel a lot of times the reaching out is really subtle but it's the most the person in need can muster. So just amazing work for talking about such a heavy subject and bringing up the issues. There's really so much I liked about this post! ❤

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    1. Aww thank you!! I was worried it’d come off like one of those self help posts, so I’m glad. Yeah, people always seem to be on the lookout for big signs that something is wrong with some one, but it’s almost always something subtle.

      Gaaah, if only people knew what to look for! I’m glad you stopped by Kat!! 😀

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  5. Another excellent, well-written post, Naja. As expected. This post touched me deeply. I don’t share this to many, but there was a moment in my life when I wanted to kill myself. It was when I suffered depression during my teens. It was an utterly dark time in my life, and I felt like I was stuck and couldn’t do anything to move. It’s a time that I wanted to forget, but over time I accepted it as part of my experience. At least now I know how it felt like, and I would do everything I have to do not to experience it again. I overcame depression through months of therapy. I still experience acute anxiety now and then, making me literally physically ill when I’m too stressed out, but at least I now have an idea to handle it. Most of the people who know or meet me wouldn’t believe that I ever experienced things like this because according to them I give off a no-nonsense, strong, strict and reliable impression. But I think that’s just the point. Things happen in life, and no one is immune to moments of helplessness. Thank you for this post, Naja. I really appreciate that you tackle mental health issues, and emphasize the multi-faceted humans. I personally have not watched this film before, but now I really want to watch it. Keep up the great writing. Cheers!

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